Do you remember The Who’s song “Who Are You?” I’m old enough to know it from the initial release in 1978 (high school graduation year) but I sing it more because it was the opening theme song for the “CSI” TV series. Of course, I only know the opening lines: Who are you? Who, who, who, who?…repeat indefinitely. You are now singing it in your head, aren’t you? You’re welcome.
But this could also be my theme song every day…or at least a question I should ask myself frequently. Who are you, Kris…who, who, who, who?
Who are you when:
- you stub your toe in the dark
- that crazy driver cuts you off on the interstate
- someone unfriends you on Facebook
- you bomb that job interview
- there are 20 people in the only open Wal-Mart checkout lane
- a mole wreaks havoc through your lawn
- an “overdraft” notice arrives
- your identity information is hacked
- ugly rumors about your pastor reach your ears
- your husband watches TV while you clean the house
- the church committee didn’t ask for your help
- your favorite (fill in the blank) comes up missing
- a deer sideswipes your car
- you get caught by the red light cameras
- you miss a deadline
- the scale shows five pounds more than yesterday
- the dishwasher floods the kitchen
We don’t need more examples…pretty sure you get my drift.
Who I am is what’s on the inside that comes out during times of stress, or disappointment, or rejection, or pain, or normal living of your everyday life. Although I love being on the mountain top, I become the real “me” in the valleys of life. And sometimes, I don’t like what comes out of me. Sometimes I see the ugliness of gossip, shame, condemnation, rejection, self-hate, and impatience.
However, I want to welcome these wake up calls. Because if I don’t see the yuck inside occasionally, I won’t ever be able to clean my house. If I don’t recognize the nastiness inside, I’ll keep going along, thinking I’m just fine, so fine.
Don and I had a wonderful mentor who told us often:
“Characte
r is what happens when someone tips over your coffee cup.”
Who are you? I hope you find out today.
“Search me, O God, and know my heart;
test me and know my anxious thoughts.
24 Point out anything in me that offends you,
and lead me along the path of everlasting life.” Psalm 139:23-24

