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Art Appreciation 101

I work in an art museum.

Not really. But it looks like it and when you walk into the lobby for the first time, you sense the same atmosphere of an art museum. Quiet. Almost reverent.

I’m privileged to sit at the front desk of my company, in the midst of great art and collections, every weekday afternoon. And I take it for granted most days. Then someone walks in the front door – someone who has never been here before – and they gaze in awe, with jaws dropped, at the amazing displays of beauty and history in every corner and on every wall. Usually their first words to me are, “This place is so beautiful. You are so lucky.”

Yes, I am.

I took a walk through the building this morning and purposefully took pictures of some of the art we have on interior, hidden hallways. Photographs taken by family members. Original art from one of the company vice-presidents. Paintings. Prints. Mosaics. Pottery. Sculptures. Collage. Textiles. Native head dresses from South America. Wood, clay, and iron pieces. Even death masks (but those are my least favorite).

Most of us walk through these hallways every day, with our heads down, our minds on tasks at hand, and we miss the beauty, the originality, the creativity all around us. That’s why I took that walk this morning. To add art to my every day. And I’m going to do it every day through Lent. I’m going to search out pieces I’ve never noticed before and intentionally pay attention to the artistry and effort and creative minds and hands of each piece.

Your takeaway? You may not work in an “art museum” like I do. But take a walk today, or look up from whatever you’re doing long enough, to really see the beauty around you. It may the architecture of the building across the street, the finger painting on your refrigerator, or the smile of your spouse. It’s there – if you take the time to look for it.

 

So You Think You’re Not Good Enough?

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Day Three – Packing Up My Feelings of Unworthiness

I have to admit I have a pretty healthy self-image. I don’t really struggle with feeling unworthy of love. But I know a lot of people who do – women and men. Maybe it’s because I received a lot of affirmation as a child and even now as a middle-aged adult (Hey – I’m going to live to be 110, ok?). My parents always told me they loved me, they hugged and kissed us as kids (and adults). My dad constantly told me I could do anything I put my mind to. I receive a lot of encouragement from my husband, friends and employers. They seem to have faith and trust in me, and I try to show the same to others in my circle of influence.

But maybe you don’t have that support. Why do some of us feel unworthy of love and acceptance? Maybe you didn’t have anyone show you love or tell you in ways you understood (see “Five Love Languages” by Dr. Gary Chapman). Maybe we’ve judged ourselves unworthy because of what we see on the outside, using cultural standards of beauty. We buy into a false reality when we believe what the magazine covers and cosmetic ads tell us about beauty. If we believe the romance novels and the movie plot lines, we would never feel “good enough” to be worthy of anything.

In case you don’t realize it – Your identity comes from what God has done for you and He says you are worthy. Here are a few things you need to remind yourself of…and saying them out loud helps a lot!

*I am accepted.
*I am secure.
*I am significant.
*I have value.
*I am fearfully and wonderfully made.
*I have been chosen by God.
*I am God’s friend.
*I have been bought with a price and I belong to God.
*I have direct access to the throne of grace through Jesus.
*I am born of God.
*I have been given a spirit of power, love and a sound mind.
*I am God’s workmanship.
*I am a citizen of heaven.
*I have been established, anointed and sealed by God.
*I am being transformed into Jesus’ likeness.

This whole list is in Scripture so if you want the exact references, let me know. There’s a whole bunch more too!

So – remember this. Your identity, your feelings of worth, do not come from your name, your heritage, your circumstances, your children, your job, your talents (or lack), your address, or what people say about you. God says your beauty comes not from your outward appearance but from your inner self, “the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.” (1 Peter 3:4)

Oh boy – I really need to work on that gentle and quiet thing.